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	<title>Comments on: AMBER ALERT ISSUED: PORT ST. LUCIE FL 7 YEAR OLD GIRL ABDUCTED (UPDATED)</title>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:06:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mandy, Post 21:  I totally agree with you.  I think kids are terrified by what is so widely publicized lately.  There are a lot of very real boogymen out there these days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mandy, Post 21:  I totally agree with you.  I think kids are terrified by what is so widely publicized lately.  There are a lot of very real boogymen out there these days.</p>
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		<title>By: martha</title>
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		<dc:creator>martha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with you Pamtx---those boys would be in a world of trouble. and I  think a nice visit to the courthouse, etc is in order.  Not only what they did but that le and others spent time and money looking for the girl when they could be really helping someone else.  In my book this is serious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with you Pamtx&#8212;those boys would be in a world of trouble. and I  think a nice visit to the courthouse, etc is in order.  Not only what they did but that le and others spent time and money looking for the girl when they could be really helping someone else.  In my book this is serious.</p>
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		<title>By: Mandy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 21:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, thank goodness we can breath a sigh of relief that this was not a true instance of harm coming to one of our children. 

However, I did want to weigh in a bit more on this because I think it brings up some important issues. Obviously, the boys did something completely inappropriate and need to be made aware of the consequences of their behavior. A crime was committed and it will be up to LE and their parents to decide what that consequence is. 

I know my opinion on this will probably be unpopular, but I think maybe the more important question here is why these boys did this instead what their punishment will be.

Often when children act out in a way that causes panic and/or upset in adults it is because they are very frightened of something and are trying to deal with it in a way where they are in a position of control. I often have to remind parents, even absolutely great parents, about keeping tabs on what their children are exposed to. We all know that children cannot process things the way adults can, and the line between real and imaginary are often blurred. This is why most parents have the good sense not to let their young children watch horror movies, etc. However, one area that parents are infamous for not regulating is a child&#039;s exposure to news. They watch it while the kids are playing in the same room or listen to it on the radio on the way home from school but unfortunately we live in a world were the current news is horrific, at best. 

I do not mean to say that we should let our children live in a bubble and leave them completely ignorant of the real world, but news shared with children has to be presented in a way that is age appropriate. I think the majority of the time the parent should be the one to give a child news, especially in instances where they can use the stories to highlight safety or teach valuable lessons, etc.

This is just my $0.02 but if I had to take a guess about these boys we heard about today, it would be that they are scared to death of the highly publicized cases such as Caylee, Somer and Shaniya. And if they are acting out by making up stories then that needs to be dealt with at the source, IMO.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, thank goodness we can breath a sigh of relief that this was not a true instance of harm coming to one of our children. </p>
<p>However, I did want to weigh in a bit more on this because I think it brings up some important issues. Obviously, the boys did something completely inappropriate and need to be made aware of the consequences of their behavior. A crime was committed and it will be up to LE and their parents to decide what that consequence is. </p>
<p>I know my opinion on this will probably be unpopular, but I think maybe the more important question here is why these boys did this instead what their punishment will be.</p>
<p>Often when children act out in a way that causes panic and/or upset in adults it is because they are very frightened of something and are trying to deal with it in a way where they are in a position of control. I often have to remind parents, even absolutely great parents, about keeping tabs on what their children are exposed to. We all know that children cannot process things the way adults can, and the line between real and imaginary are often blurred. This is why most parents have the good sense not to let their young children watch horror movies, etc. However, one area that parents are infamous for not regulating is a child&#8217;s exposure to news. They watch it while the kids are playing in the same room or listen to it on the radio on the way home from school but unfortunately we live in a world were the current news is horrific, at best. </p>
<p>I do not mean to say that we should let our children live in a bubble and leave them completely ignorant of the real world, but news shared with children has to be presented in a way that is age appropriate. I think the majority of the time the parent should be the one to give a child news, especially in instances where they can use the stories to highlight safety or teach valuable lessons, etc.</p>
<p>This is just my $0.02 but if I had to take a guess about these boys we heard about today, it would be that they are scared to death of the highly publicized cases such as Caylee, Somer and Shaniya. And if they are acting out by making up stories then that needs to be dealt with at the source, IMO.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheila</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sheila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! I know kids do some stupid things, but, hopefully something will be done by Law Enforcement and then taken care of more at home. It&#039;s easy to think that this was no big deal and no one was actually taken. Thank God! But, people are and were affected by this without many even knowing. My home was broken into recently and my personal belonging stolen and it has cost us a fortune to replace things and make our home more secure. I actually saw the Police out int he area while visiting family and they were in his community. His home was not locked, dogs were barking, Police going through back yards and I was stressed out to the max. And, all a Hoax, thankfully. But, it should  be a wake up call and the word needs to get out to the community by Law Enforcement and we need to have our eyes open ALL THE TIME! Be safe and pay attention.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! I know kids do some stupid things, but, hopefully something will be done by Law Enforcement and then taken care of more at home. It&#8217;s easy to think that this was no big deal and no one was actually taken. Thank God! But, people are and were affected by this without many even knowing. My home was broken into recently and my personal belonging stolen and it has cost us a fortune to replace things and make our home more secure. I actually saw the Police out int he area while visiting family and they were in his community. His home was not locked, dogs were barking, Police going through back yards and I was stressed out to the max. And, all a Hoax, thankfully. But, it should  be a wake up call and the word needs to get out to the community by Law Enforcement and we need to have our eyes open ALL THE TIME! Be safe and pay attention.</p>
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		<title>By: PamTX</title>
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		<dc:creator>PamTX</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To say the very least, principals in each school were most likely scampering around trying to get a student head count from teachers and relaying that info. to LE.  What a quick response by LE and others.

Personally, the age of these boys matters not to me.  I would hope at the very least, they would get a complimentary tour of the courthouse, followed by some community service.  

This one did have a &quot;whew&quot; at the end, and that is a good day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To say the very least, principals in each school were most likely scampering around trying to get a student head count from teachers and relaying that info. to LE.  What a quick response by LE and others.</p>
<p>Personally, the age of these boys matters not to me.  I would hope at the very least, they would get a complimentary tour of the courthouse, followed by some community service.  </p>
<p>This one did have a &#8220;whew&#8221; at the end, and that is a good day.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 19:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Little twerps. :O)   Kids this age don&#039;t always understand the rammifications of what they do.  But I am so relieved it wasn&#039;t real.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Little twerps. :O)   Kids this age don&#8217;t always understand the rammifications of what they do.  But I am so relieved it wasn&#8217;t real.</p>
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