Kyron Horman Missing and Endangered: Kaine Horman Files For Restraining Order And Divorce From Terri Horman

Posted by BOC Staff | Kaine Horman,Kyron Horman,Terri Horman | Tuesday 29 June 2010 7:39 am

Portland, OR– Kaine Horman, Father of Missing and Endangered Child Kyron Horman, has left his wife and step-mother to Kyron, Terri Horman.

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Rumors swirled yesterday afternoon that Kaine was no longer living in the marital residence, but approached by the press in her yard, Terri Horman denied the accusation as reported by Fox TV. A few hours later, Terri was served with papers for a restraining order and dissolution of marriage.

“Everything’s good,” she said, giving a thumbs up. “We heard that rumor. It’s just a rumor that needs to be squelched. Everything’s fine.”

Kaine Horman is represented by Portland attorney Laura Rackner, who specializes in Family Law.

Sources inside the investigation speaking on the condition of anonymity, have confirmed to blinkoncrime.com that Kaine Horman is filing for divorce based on information provided to him by the Multnomah County Sheriff’s Office about events leading up to the disappearance of Kyron Horman.

Terri Horman has not been named a suspect in Kyron’s case, and as stated through a friend that arrived at her home around 8 PM last evening who also asked not to be identified, is not considered one by police or her family. 

Kyron Horman, 7, disappeared from Skyline School on the morning of June 4, 2010.

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271 Comments

  1. dee says:

    blink don’t hate on me…I have been silent on this on for a grip now…

    but with that said IMO SM is not in a good spot IMO she is the perp on the events in this missing child, I didnt think so until I saw the family’s first cameo, she set me off in a big way and that was before I came here or to the Hinky site…didnt even know at the time you were covering this case, my feelings are soley my own has nothing to do with other posting by some great folks here….

    for now I sit in silent, but her actions have nothing to do with being a SM, I am one also of 3, my hubby has 3 I have 3 we are a blended family my kids were raised with love and respect and boundries hubby’s not so much we went thru hell trying to blend our family one son was psychotic and had to be commited other two abused in the past and it was a nightmare, but in the end I still love them all, my Step son bless his heart just joined the Army and soon off to the war…this has nothing to do with step kids and jealousy, something sinister is happening and the tight lip LE know it IMO again…what strikes me the most is the comment by LE awhile back that “there is no boogy man” (in so many words) that to me is telling…

    I will sit and wait on the side lines on this one

  2. whosonfirst says:

    After reading along of all that has transpired in the last day with Kaine and Terri, I am perplexed. My post is of Terri and Kaine ( jmo) Since this news is about them, as a couple.
    I have felt all along that Terri is a scapegoat in all of this. I do not know if she is involved or not. I find it ” because” she was the last one to have Kryon/see Kryon- and her comment of hitting the gym .. not to be enough to Hang her. It that comment on her fb was never found by the public/media. What would replace it? to cause her such scrutiny. Other than she being the one who took Kyron to school the day of June 4th. Understanding that she has not made any statements to the public on her own ( from her own mouth to the public’s ear).

    I looked at Terri’s photos. The few that are online. If you go to this link, it has over 60+ photos of the Horman family. http://www.cbsnews.com/2300-504083_162-10003676-44.html?tag=page
    The photo’s that are from 41-47 appear to be Christmas 2009. ( That would be just 6 months ago)
    Photo 42: Is Kaine, Kyron, Kitty sitting on the couch with a Wii Band Hero.
    * I see in the photo that the couch has a sheet on it. On the upper left side is a woman’s pink silk robe/PJ. Was Terri sleeping on the couch? Not with Kaine.
    Photo 43: closer photo that it is clearly a woman’s pj – not a silk blouse etc.
    Kaine is dressed in day clothes. Kids in their pj’s.
    Photo 44: shows Kaine/Terri/Kyron/James – Terri looks noticeably Healthy, Happy, Face with color, Fit – and I may add twenty years younger than the present photo’s they are showing to the public now.
    Photo 47: shows again the Wii with Kyron/James and Kitty in the background.
    I notice too that all the gifts that are being shown in the photo’s are family oriented. Mom is usually Santa – so I don’t think that Kaine picked out these gifts.
    I believe these photos are from the Same Christmas, Kitty is all the photos(except for One) and Kyron has his Teeth * his front teeth.
    It shows too that Kyron and his brother had a good relationship. James is happily showing Kyron all the gifts. I notice too that in most of the photos from this link shows Kyron in over sized t-shirts. I think that the T-shirts were either once James’ or they were his and Kyron liked to wear his big brothers shirts.
    Going back to the photo with the sheet on the couch. It screams at me that someone was sleeping on it. Not just a couch cover say for Boots ..(to prevent cat hair) if that was the case it would be ” cover that went with the room decor” such as a full couch cover.
    What happened in the last 6 mos between Kaine and Terri. Why did Terri’s appearance fall apart? For someone who worked very very hard in her past ( Body Builder) and to me looks exceptionally healthy/fit in the photo named. Taken *I believe* 6 mos ago. Even the photo of her above ” She looks Great” unlike she does at present. I did see photos of Terri after the baby and she again looked awesome. Snapped back quite well. I wish I could find that photo.
    Looking at the ” Big Picture” and not tearing apart the unknown. The known is that Kyron’s Mother divorced Kaine when she was almost due to have Kyron. A divorce does not happen over night. For a pregnant woman at term, to follow through and Divorce her husband is very telling. Was this for reasons of custody? Did he threaten her and she beat him to the punch by filing for Divorce. For her to file a retraining order on him as well is very telling.
    What is it with Kaine and kids? Seems to be quite a correlation doesn’t it. I wonder what kind of Husband he was to Desiree. What type of Man he really is. I feel for Terri to lose her exterior so quickly, to show considerable aging, to gain weight so quickly, is a product of what was going on inside the Horman house. If you notice her skin today is paste white, her hair is frizzy and not glossy or shiny. That to me is Stress related. Not recreational drugs or anything that others are contemplating for her loss of looks. If Terri was abusing Drugs/Alcohol Kaine would know. Him working in/out of the house he would see Terri and how she cared for Kitty. If he had any inclination that Terri was not capable he would have taken action immediately.
    I think this all points to Kaine. I think he is very controlling. He knows he is the bread winner. He holds all the cards. Was he having an Affair? And not only told Terri he was but he told her ” If Only she could be a Better Wife/Mother” he would not have to go out else where .. that it was her fault. For his actions outside of the home. Which is another way of creating control and holding Terri mentally hostage.
    Words snipped from a Dr. Phil book. I am not a huge Dr Phil fan – but this does make sense in this scenario. http://drphil.com/articles/article/561
    He speaks of Emotions felt when a Divorce is pending. My Gut says that Kaine, had in the near past threatened Terri with Divorce. Nothing to do with Kyron being missing.
    Rejection and Despair ((Both Kaine and Terri could be feeling this since they have suffered Divorces in their pasts))
    “Feelings of rejection may run high because we often measure the results of our efforts in terms of whether or not the world accepts or rejects us,” Dr. Phil says. Sometimes, another person’s reaction can be a barometer of our worth and value. “When the love of our life leaves us, any past rejection issues can be magnified.” You may feel unworthy, not good enough or like damaged goods. A divorce may also signify the failure of your dream, because you couldn’t make the marriage work.
    Bitterness ( again both of them could feel this)
    “Riding what I call the bitter bus is pretty common for many reasons,” Dr. Phil says. You may be bitter that your spouse ruined the perfect family ideal you believed in and threw your life in turmoil. You may also feel like you didn’t deserve this outcome.
    ** Going back to Kaine working from inside the house and at his place of work – triggers me to think again that he likes to Monitor .. and Did very much so Monitor Terri.
    If you have ever lived with an silent abuser( I have) they love to ” check in” ” check up” and make their presence known – You live in My World, I make the rules/I make the money. We do not share as a couple.I am the king and you follow along.* Which all happens after the Lovey Dovey Honeymoon syndrome is over. That is not a loving relationship. That is a Man who brings in his insecurities from his past marriage. And throws it to the NEW Wife hand over fist .. so that she is controlled by him. So he wont be known as a failure ..yet again. Did Terri send James away, because he was old enough – to hear and see the turmoil. That he tried to step in and protect his Mother. So Terri sent James away, that he would not be in the middle. To protect him. Terri was in control of that choice to send James away. Its not like she was court ordered to lose her son. Notice how it has not been said that Kaine is the best DAD on the planet. By Desiree or anyone for that matter. Desiree doesn’t have a leg to stand on -other than do go along with what ever was created in court ( that she was able to have Kyron in her life)visitation. She would do nothing to disrupt that.

    I just think that Kaine has been left out of this picture. That he is somewhat to be seen as Hero ..and I don’t believe it. I think he has alliances, he has people in his corner. He has his own itinerary. Even if Terri’s life is destroyed along the way. To Him, Terri is disposable. Maybe Terri is scared to death to speak up for herself. Did anyone ever think of that? Kaine has now filed for Divorce/ Full custody of Kitty. Something is not being said here. In the wake of tragedy families bond closer, they do not rip apart ( even if they do not like each other). Even if Terri had something to do with Kyron’s disappearance( which I do not believe she did) the timing of this Divorce/Custody battle is irony. It’s Kaine’s life on repeat. I think Terri is being held to the wall – for reasons of ??? It will all come out soon enough. I think though that this blatant attack on Terri is going to bust wide open .. and it’s going to be a shock to all. jmo.
    Praying for Kyron – Who I believe is an innocent bystander to a failed marriage and god knows what else.

  3. pink angel says:

    Kaine Horman is represented by Portland’s Laure E. Rackner of Gearing, Rackner & Engel, a Portland law firm.

    Rackner issued the following statement:

    Mr. Horman has a continuing desire to bring Kyron home safely, and to provide for the best interests of his daughter Kiara. I refer you to the public statement issued by the family yesterday, which is included below. Mr. Horman remains supportive of all of the law enforcement agencies working to locate Kyron and will continue to act in his children’s best interests.

    http://www.koinlocal6.com/content/news/topstories/story/Kaine-Hormans-restraining-order-could-be-unsealed/Dz4uMChK60KCWjy3W5FG4Q.cspx

  4. mary says:

    I think because Terri was a body builder (and they both look buff in the Hawaii wedding photo) that there must have been a big sexual attraction as part of their relationship. But I don’t agree that she was having an affair. When people have affairs, they start looking better. Terri, has never looked worse. I think there is possible sex abuse in her background and with the birth of the daughter she lived through her “carbon copy” as a brand new lease on life. But she lost her self image while pregnant and wanted to get back into “super” shape. While it may have been the infant who really got in the way of this, it was easy to transfer the abuse to Kyron. Some people who have been abused sexually also will try “kill off” a child who is nearing the same age as the adult was when victimized. They want an innocent child to suffer because they did at that age. They pick an easy mark. It can be psychic disfugurement as emotional and mental abuse or manifest in physical abuse or murder. I believe Terri to be guilty myself of whatever happened to Kyron. And I am not trying to make excuses for her but could testosterone like drugs or being off them play a part, as well as post-partum depression, which can arrive from what I know up to 24 months later. Could all of this add up to her convincing herself she could get away with this. Plus her attachment to crime scene drama? Just my opinion. I hope poor Kyron comes home soon one way or the other.

  5. Futureman says:

    Hello Blink. I realize you’ve offered your own opinion about this matter. But suppose you could make an inference from purely disinterested observations. Does LE *appear* to be operating under the assumption that Kyron is deceased? Or does this matter remain utterly mysterious to even those in your position? Out here in the sticks, it is impossible to decipher such things.

    Based on my experience, I don’t believe I can have a “disinterested” opinion.

    It is my observation that LE is functioning under the guise of building a successful prosecution while investigating Kyron’s disapearance as appropriate. I do not know a LEO, and I know a slew, that entertains a scenario in this case where Kyron is still alive, sadly.

    I can assure you of one thing, if Kyron can be found, it is their no.1 goal. Regardless of the outcome, LE that has this much invested is not going to ever willingly give up trying to locate this little guy.

    It is everything to these parents.
    B

    I believe they learned what they needed to from Terri on Saturday during her 2nd poly, and her husband left her for it. I believe it rose to the level of safety issues for his children, and he acted on advice from counsel

  6. Dee says:

    I am wondering about Kaine. He is asking for sole custody AND child support from Terri. Doesn’t sound to me like he thinks she’s guilty and going to jail. He has shown little or no emotion throughout all of this and I’m wondering if he is somehow involved and is now trying to make Terri look like the guity party so she can take the fall. If he moved out on her while she is not even listed as a person of interest then he’s not a stand-up guy. Remember, he and Desiree split when she was 8 months pregnant with Kyron. What woman leaves the father of her child when she is 8 months pregnant unless he is really awful. She had a restraining order filed against him saying she was afraid he would take Kyron away from her and he did do exactly that. I wonder if Desiree had to pay child support to him as the custodial parent. Now he has taken Kiara away from Terri and is asking her for child support.

  7. J2K says:

    Moved to Front Page article
    B

  8. minima says:

    Here is a link to the Statement analysis blog that “Yoshi” brought to our attention earlier in the week.

    This is regarding the statement made by the family yesterday.

    http://seamusoriley.blogspot.com/

  9. christy says:

    @#37
    Elisabeth
    “I am really curious why once Bio mom was able to get her health back and court and marry a detective and does not think she can live without Kyron..why didn’t she get the little guy back?”

    – Maybe because she truly loves him and knew/thought that he was settled in and happy. Maybe she still had extensive medical needs that rendered her physically unable to care for a toddler. Maybe both?
    I simply cannot fault her for either.

    “I know bio mom was only every other weekend…but didn’t she feel he was “special” enough to go and see his science project?”

    – She and Tony live IIRC, 3 hours away. You cannot be there for everything. Even the best and most attentive full-time parent cannot attend *everything*.

  10. christy says:

    I apologize, #38 Elisabeth is to whom I was referring.

  11. Elizabeth says:

    This is something else I thought of. If Kaine Horman is keeping the baby why did he move and upset babies world.

    Why wouldn’t Terri leave? She is comfortable in her home with her parents and her friends while Kaine and the baby are packed in unfamiliar surroundings. My concern is not with him but with the baby. Her mother and her home are gone from her.

    This certainly sounds like a case where nobody wins.

  12. Lovely says:

    KAZ – agree with you completely.

    During times like this, it is imperative that a husband and wife would stay together for support…you always lean on the one you love, and they are the only two people who are going through that experience.

    The fact that he is peacing out – AND files for sole custody of the other child – is a clear statement that he wants NOTHING to do with her. He is in shock that she is guilty (by/not by association).

    What I dont understand, in this case and in all the other cases, if you were involved in any way, wouldnt you give the police ALL the facts because you love your child and have that horrible pit in your stomach and just want him back?

    If my child was missing, I would be the first to say, “Officer, I was smoking weed and doing lines of coke while having sex with two men in the back of my car. When I looked up, my child was gone. Please please help me find him”. You are a MOTHER – you wouldnt even think about yourself.

    Just shows me that the SM is selfish, only thinking about protecting herself, and is not grasping the reality of what has happened or her involvement in it. She thinks she is the “victim”.

    The divorce filing is a clear sign she is involved in some manner. There is legitimately no reading between the lines on that one.

    After a day like this lovely, who is lovely, btw- I got a chuckle, much needed thanks.

    On a serious note, of course. The reality is, as a Mother, whatever happens to my children ever, is my fault, it is just the way it is.

    The umbilicus is never cut, it just becomes invisible to anyone but me.

    ps. You must have a very large car.
    B

  13. lily says:

    Lovely!!! I got a mental image of that and laughed for the first time today. But I realize your point is exactly right. Whatever mistakes, improprieties or imperfections I had – I would be laying them out on a table to whatever law enforcement individual would listen and help me find my missing child. No matter what. You couldn’t shut me up about all of the bad things I might have done – if my intentions were in the right place.

  14. TunedIn says:

    Blink– the other day you made a remark that TH may not know what she knows, but she knows …(paraphrased). Do you think that *this* may have been the center of the 2nd poly questioning, and now the interested parties all know what she didn’t, but now does, know?

    I’m thinking that *this* may somehow be related to why her 16yr old was initially with her parents. And June 5th required her parents support and him being shielded, which is why he moved in with his bio-dad. ~ Your thoughts?

  15. Madame Clouseau says:

    Please keep in mind that Kaine Horman was advised by law enforcement officials to move out of the home with the baby. This was stated yesterday on KPTV early evening news — before there was a public announcement about the divorce and RO later in the evening.

  16. ClassyGal says:

    SS not so……..
    A swinger doesn’t equate to a killer- Accidently or not!

  17. Jackie Bauer :) says:

    “ps. You must have a very large car.
    B”

    Blink, Lovely borrowed my car ;) I know longer need it now that I’m a saint ;) (Lovely, thank you for a great lol).

    Blink, something that you wrote earlier is kind of sticking in my mind: You know where Kaine & Kitty are, and there is security. Do you think they’re in danger from the same elements that harmed Kyron?

  18. tango says:

    Hi all,

    I post at the morgan harrington threads as “mary”. I see above there is another one here so I’m claiming a nickname Blink offered to a poster a long time ago. Please let me know if there is another tango; I’ll go with something else.

    I’ve read a little bit about this case and just happened to catch some scenes from the press conference on Jane Velez and I have got to say, as a resident of South Carolina, Terri Horman looked EXACTLY like Susan Smith did at her first press conference. The downward tilt of the head, eyes not looking at the camera, excessive blinking (no pun intended — guilty of that myself lol).

    And my friend mary above makes a great point about prior sexual abuse in an offender — Susan Smith was ALSO sexually abused, by her stepfather.

  19. minima says:

    Blink states:

    “It is my observation that LE is functioning under the guise of building a successful prosecution while investigating Kyron’s disapearance as appropriate. I do not know a LEO, and I know a slew, that entertains a scenario in this case where Kyron is still alive, sadly.”

    : ( So, the theory of a “ransom” doesn’t work here. It seemed unlikely but I was really hoping that was the case. I mean if someone intended to “hold” him that is one thing, but to go from that to murder would be a large leap. My point is if Blink along w/ all the LEO he/you know(s) of believe he is no longer alive…well, I am just saying I doubt he was held and then “disposed” of out of fear of getting caught. In that way the ‘ransom’ idea doesn’t fit in my mind. But what do I know? No, cases where a child is harmed makes sense, they are all senseless and horrendous acts.

    I regards to “Christy’s” post. Medford is actually about 5 hours away from Kyron’s School. And my assumption, which, I think is apparent in Desiree’s “guilt” that she expresses time and again, is that she left Kyron with TH and KH because she felt like she was doing the right thing, for him. Perhaps she thought it best not to ‘fight’ for him, even though she wanted to. But as a mother, I just felt for her. My heart ached that while she thought she was doing the right thing, this transpired. I can’t imagine how tormented she must be. But I truly believe she was doing what was best for him. If he is found alive I am pretty sure she’s never going to let him out of her sight again. I still hope, hope hope, he is found alive.

    In this instance, the only way I see “ransom” comes into play, is to stave off recovery efforts to hinder a prosecution, imo.
    B

  20. CB says:

    I like the question posed as to why the bio mom did not choose to raise Kyron, especially since they have no other children. Nothing has been said of her life story other than the mention of illness. My heart goes out to her as I can see how much she loves him. Maybe the SM wanted to keep Kyron in the home rather than paying child support to the bio mom?

    I dwell on the report of the two cars (someone in a white truck and a mustang speeding on Sauvie Island)the day he disappeared. It seems TH was rushing to deal with a bad situation and I fear that the worst occurred at that time.

    I pray so much that Kyron is ok and will be returned to those who love him.

    Thank you Blink for all you do.

  21. melissab says:

    Boots? You are real close aren’t you? Share more from your beautiful mind please!!!!

    I’m ridin’ with Lovely next time we go anywhere!!!

    Lol
    B

  22. lily says:

    Terri may talk to the media

    PORTLAND, Ore. – Terri Moulton Horman was “blindsided” by the divorce papers, according to a close friend.

    SNIPPED

    A friend of Terri who wished to remain anonymous, told KOIN Local 6 Kyron Horman’s step-mother was caught off guard when she was served divorce papers as well as a restraining order from her husband and Kyron’s father, Kaine Horman.

    “Terri didn’t know she was going to be hit with divorce papers or a restraining order,” the friend said.

    The friend said Terri may consider talking publicly and airing her side of the story.

    “She’s been doing what Kaine said all along and he’s been telling her to stay quiet. The public will benefit from hearing what she has to say.”

    http://www.koinlocal6.com/content/news/topstories/story/Terri-Horman-may-talk-to-the-media/Dz4uMChK60KCWjy3W5FG4Q.cspx

  23. Lovely says:

    Its a sedan. Only good for smoking a joint on occasion ;-)

    Thank you! You are lovely too!

    Remember: may all beings find real peace, real happiness. May all beings be liberated.

    If we focused on ourselves, there would not be any of this turmoil.

    xoxo

  24. Bearlyhere says:

    I don’t have anything against the picture, just to clarify. I think they are teasing the person taking the picture and it was the result of what they were talking about beforehand. My concern was with Kyron and his friends. I would not show my child the picture if he/she were Kyron’s classmate, but where I live, too much is shared with children. She was/is also a person who works/worked at the school. I guess this is over anyway, it appears her career is over. The other thing I thought was that LE may be trying to separate them from each other to keep their children safe and here is a picture of them very much together. The picture itself is harmless. It appears to be all in fun.

    The idea of a teacher and hinkiness also bothers me, but that is from personal experience and my child as I have said before.

    Blink, I hope you are well, have stayed in the air conditioning, have enjoyed the pool, and taken some time for yourself.

  25. Dee says:

    Blnk, I just popped in to see if there were any new developments after this mornings announcement of the divorce.

    Was it ever confirmed if the Little Guy did in fact have a doctors appointment regardless of that day or coming up? I remember it was mententioned to his teacher.

  26. Angela_nw says:

    OK new twist
    http://www.koinlocal6.com/content/news/topstories/story/Terri-Horman-may-talk-to-the-media/Dz4uMChK60KCWjy3W5FG4Q.cspx

    from the article:
    The friend said Terri may consider talking publicly and airing her side of the story.

    “She’s been doing what Kaine said all along and he’s been telling her to stay quiet. The public will benefit from hearing what she has to say.”

  27. FLGirl says:

    Well, it only took 3 1/2 weeks, but Nancy Grace is FINALLY covering this case. Unfortunately she’s allowing her guests to put out some misinformation; like the idea that BioMom Desiree were good friends prior to hooking up with Kaine; which has been debunked already by Desiree on one of the Friday morning talk shows.

    There was not much new info, but a little snippet about the reason that SM’s bio-son, the 16-year-old, left the home. One of her reporters says that the teen was having problems in school, but also that he was clashing with Kaine, and that SM decided to send him to her parents.

    Of course there’s already been speculation amongst our online communities that the teen didn’t get along with Kaine, and that he was sent away to other family as a result; well looks like that appears to be true. Whether it’s enough for a motive for SM to do something to Kyron…

  28. Brooklyn says:

    I am going back to 8:45am.. and I am sure this will come out in the end. That is Terri’s time and only her time. Who saw her at this time., and prior to this time. That is the question that has to be answered. How can we base the last time frame on her details? That is why the questionaires, IMO.

  29. Malty says:

    That pic is ok
    I just hope it is the last one taken
    of them together

  30. the queen says:

    if terri goes to trial could she get a change of venue? she is toast in portland and it seems all over the country. where could she go to get her venue changed and a fair trial?

  31. J2K says:

    This Just In…

    And, as B would say: “Uh boy.”

    According to Terri’s hopelessly “helpful” backwoods publicist, “Terri Moulton Horman was ‘blindsided’ by the divorce papers, according to a close friend.

    “A friend of Terri who wished to remain anonymous, told KOIN Local 6 Kyron Horman’s step-mother was caught off guard when she was served divorce papers as well as a restraining order from her husband and Kyron’s father, Kaine Horman.
    ‘Terri didn’t know she was going to be hit with divorce papers or a restraining order,’ the friend said”

    (http://www.koinlocal6.com/content/news/topstories/story/Terri-Horman-may-talk-to-the-media/Dz4uMChK60KCWjy3W5FG4Q.cspx)

    Oooookay. When paired with the gist pieces of the Family Statement (strategically released the day before the divorce “bombshell” got dropped):

    “We have been fully briefed by law enforcement on the on-going criminal investigation. …Any actions taken… by us, are based on the best interests of Kyron and Kiara and comply with the law. …”

    This can only add up to one conclusion, the way I see it. Kaine, Desiree and Tony were advised by the Sheriff’s Office last week on Terri’s impending arrest. (And Kaine was likely further advised: Lawyer up. Leave. File. Wait.)

    tic tic tic…

  32. Karen says:

    I don’t know what to think of this latest article:

    http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20100629/ap_on_re_us/us_missing_oregon_boy;_ylt=An2eAW585I9T8vqMATgmT6Cs0NUE;_ylu=X3oDMTNxdnFqZzM5BGFzc2V0A2FwLzIwMTAwNjI5L3VzX21pc3Npbmdfb3JlZ29uX2JveQRjY29kZQNtb3N0cG9wdWxhcgRjcG9zAzEwBHBvcwM3BHB0A2hvbWVfY29rZQRzZWMDeW5faGVhZGxpbmVfbGlzdARzbGsDc3RlcG1vbW9mbWlz

    When I saw the headlines on this page this morning, I was rather shaken at first, thinking there must be evidence to implicate TH after all, since Kaine filed for divorce and a restraining order. But, as others, I reasoned that it was a strategy to distance the rest of the family from TH, the perceived target of a vengeful wife caught in the middle of a lover’s triangle.

    Now, though, how do you explain this provision that TH is denied access to firearms? The worst explanation I can think of, of course, is that LE suspects she shot her stepson. Blink, do you believe this is the inference? Or, possibly did the relationship between TH and KH deteriorate so much following the revelation about her alternate life, that TH made threats against her husband?

    I’ve always wanted to believe that TH was not directly involved in Kyron’s disappearance, and still want to believe that way, because it keeps aflame the hope that Kyron will be found alive. Do you think there’s still reason to hold onto that hope?

    That is actually standard language on a PFA order.
    B

  33. susan says:

    I have a new theory, and that is that the divorce may be just for show, the whole thing to make the culprit come out into the open, by making it seem like Terri is available to him now. If Kyron was taken in spite, to hurt Terri and Kaine, because Terri would not leave Kaine, now because of Kaine’s seeming actions, Terri is available, from all appearances.

    The divorce and restraining order may be a ruse by LE, and Kaine acting in conjunction with LE, to flush out the culprit, who now thinks that Terri is available to him.

    The whole thing of focusing on Terri as a seeming suspect, with polygraphs, chatter of arrest, the three parents grouping against Terri, and finally the divorce, and the restraining order, should give the culprit the opening he needs to come out and seek Terri, if this is some creep who admires her, for whatever sick reason.

    I think that this whole thing is being played out to address the reason why Kyron was taken, and I do believe that LE has a dialog of some sort going on with the perp. If Terri was truly a suspect or involved, I believe that she would have been arrested by now.

    It could be a psychotic facebook admirer(??).

    Could it be that Kyrons glasses and some other articles were found in the suitcase that LE was looking for, and further, when the first communication from perp was received, that was when it became a “criminal matter”, no longer just a missing person?

  34. Doug says:

    AC: Blink always knows more than she tells. She will only tell enuf for you to come to your own conclusions until it’s “official”.

    Blink, any clue as to why more security? Kaine needs protection? From Terri, or accomplices?

  35. melissab says:

    Only a question out of nowhere…could the older boy have messed with little Kyron and he was moved out of the home because of and Terry was afraid of K testifying against him?

  36. Shelly says:

    Was just reading the Missing Kyron Page -on FB…so now a family friend who wishes to remain anonymous says that Terri “may” speak to the public…that “she’s been doing what Kaine said all along and he’s been telling her to stay quiet” (was not able to copy and paste -but you can find this on Koin Local 6. She seems to think the public will benefit from what she has to say.

    This should be interesting.

    Do I know my PR or what?
    I hope that is true. I want to hear from her yesterday.
    B

  37. Joanne Ducott says:

    Haven’t been around for awhile, but checking in on poor Kyron, I just <3 that little guy. Short & Sweet Blink: “The umbilicus is never cut, it just becomes invisible to anyone but me”….probably the most profound sentence you have ever made, (and you’ve made plenty of ‘em), this one however, is my ULTRA FAVE!! Thanks again for all you do. You’re the best there is, imo

  38. Hadley says:

    Bio Mom appears to be very fragile. I just hope and pray that her friends and family are holding her close, and giving her the support that she needs. I can only imagine her rage at SM…

    I just find it difficult to believe that SM didn’t display “signs” that she resented little Kyron. Surely, someone noticed something wrong.

  39. justagirl says:

    If SM was once into bodybuilding could steroids be a factor?

  40. margaret lee says:

    i am new here.. but firmly believe that SM is guilty… in reply to “Blue Says” there may have been tons of warning signs… what is different about this case is that there is absolutely no gossip or rumor in any specific nature, its all vague. In my experience of following this type of story, that is unusual… it is almost without exception that there is at least one person that comes forward with a piece of information.. even if that source proves unreliable. But nothing.. strange.. Please still be safe Kyron…..

  41. DC08 says:

    5 years ago I took care of Kyron at a daycare (he was ages 2-3). I saw his step-mom and talked with her at each drop off. She was very kind, very motherly. For the past few weeks I kept thinking…they look really familiar, then I realized I knew her during her body building time. She was dedicated to that new hobby and seemed to enjoy it. Her older son was very well behaved, and was loved by Kyron-I don’t recall feeling any concern at all. He helped read to Kyron on the rough drop off days. Not one thing in my mind raises a red flag about her behavior then to what is going on now. But, that is what’s scary- it’s usually someone you just would never have suspected. It’s heart breaking to think about.
    As for the dad’s job, my husband works at Intel and it’s a job where you might have manditory meetings all morning but can work from home as well. Depends on exactly what he did. Most engineers are flexible and Intel wants to enable you to work from home if you cannot come into the office for whatever reason. His being home at ‘odd’ times to everyone else could have just been a thing that even our family is used to. No speculation there. It’s interesting reading everyone’s comments. I’m more of ‘innocent until proven guilty’ not visa versa, but this case is so strange that that’s hard to apply- even having once known this family.

    fyi, also on front post.
    B

  42. J2K says:

    [tap...tap...tap... Is this this thing on?]

    Shut It, Puckerman.

    heh Heh, I am putting you on the front page, so pipe down in the back row already.
    B

  43. Hadley says:

    Blink: Do you think Terri Horman is a sociopath?

    I would have no idea, I have never met her.
    B

  44. Twinkletoes says:

    @ Karen says:
    June 29, 2010 at 9:05 pm: Now, though, how do you explain this provision that TH is denied access to firearms?
    ________
    K, I read that same piece with disgust. This is the standard language of the protection order issued AND the reporter selected only certain items that would be inflamatory. As if that was really needed in this insane case. This case is bringing out the worst behavior in so many.

  45. Redrock says:

    It is not uncommon at all for parents to separate and or divorce after a tragedy involving a child.

    Agreed, but 3 weeks and still missing?
    B

  46. Hadley says:

    What is PR?

    One of the things I noticed about little Kyron is his beautiful hands. He had long slender fingers…so artistic, so beautiful. One of the sweetest smiles I have ever seen. My heart is breaking. I was so in hopes that he would be found. IF the SM did this, how in the
    h3ll can she function? She acts like Casey A. no remorse. That is
    scary!!

  47. Hadley says:

    Blink: How much longer do you think it will be until Terri Horman “breaks”…LE can question her as often as they choose, can’t they? I hope they grill her for hours and hours every day, until they get the truth!!

  48. Hadley says:

    I think in a “strange, or psychic” way Bio Mom “knew” Terri was involved. Do you think it’s possible little Kyron was trying to
    “reach” her somehow? I don’t believe in psychics, but I do think
    Kyron sweet spitit could reach out to his heartbroken Mother.

  49. margaret lee says:

    i think the divorce is not for show but for real, whatever the reason. There is no way a “fake divorce” is the way to flush out a person who is waiting for Terri to become available… LE would have had access to phone records between the two, and surely is clear on the identities of any people terri was in contact with, be it a clandestine relationship or not

  50. Hadley says:

    spirit

    Like you said, Blink, the cord is never really broken.

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