Holly Bobo Missing And Endangered: Are Suspects Naming Themselves- Odd Dodd?
Darden, TN–
On the eve of the 4 week anniversary of missing Darden, TN nursing student, Holly Bobo, new investigative details are being learned about the case. Two unofficial persons of interest have taken their case “public” in a way.
While blinkoncrime.com was aware of this information, a decision was made to withhold it in the interests of the cases “active” status previously.
That was, until today, when one of the known person’s of interests in Holly’s disappearance, outed himself publicly.
Jonathan Dodd, son of Bradley Grafton Dodd, and Dena Logan Dodd, chose the Parsons topix forum to “defend” himself against what he termed “death threats”.
Blink, Editor In Chief of www.blinkoncrime.com, was able to confirm the poster on the topix forum was indeed, Jon Dodd.
Speaking exclusively to www.blinkoncrime on the condition of anonymity, an extended family member of the Dodd family, sheds more light on Master Dodd’s claims.
“.. Yes, that is definitely him. I have no idea how he can say he does not know the Bobo family, he went to Scotts Hill with Holly for a short time. Karen Bobo, Holly’s Mom, worked for Grafton Dodd, his grandfather, when he was the principle of the Parson’s junior High when it was still there, Brad and Grafton are on the school board, there is no way that is true what is said.
Jon Dodd High School List From His myspace
When he is saying something was stolen from the property, he is talking about the ATV you wrote about before, when I saw that, I knew you were aware of him. Sandy called the sheriffs department before she knew that Holly was missing to report that their ATV was stolen. Sandy is also the cheer leading coach at Riverside High, since forever, and she got into some minor trouble a few years back because she got caught rigging the tryouts. Nothing major, but everyone knew about it. Dena, his Mom, was a teacher at Riverside shortly after he got transferred, which is weird again.
Everyone in this family has been covering for Jon since he was a kid. I could not believe when he stabbed Brad with a scissors when he was about 8 1/2, there was a big cover up. Last year Dena moved to Gwinnett County because the grands let him get away with anything. He has a baby with Shelby Sellers and nobody really even knew about that until after.
Jon went to the great-grandparents for a while in Arab, Ala in 2006 after the girl was killed in the car accident that got his ass beat up when he said she deserved it, and again, nobody said a word. Brad and Dena started up that Boy Scouts thing for him and (redacted by blink).
What is he talking about? What does donate DNA mean? O that is totally him, I can tell by the “I get paid to hunt” or whatever. Speaking of hunting, the abandoned cabin that volunteers found, when Grafton was told, was when he refused permission for any other searches and they got a warrant. Grafton and Sandy were seen removing a mattress from that part of the property, the one they found in the place where the outhouses were used recently. (redacted) saw him in WalMart, he looked at her and said he did not do it, I swear. Really scary.
He (Jon) did not donate DNA, it was taken from him in the parking lot of Tuckers Diner, he did not have a choice. The LE came there and showed some papers. Grafton’s was taken too, but I don’t know were, I heard it was at the area of the Pugh property, by that Shayne Austin’s parents house.
Another doozie…”
The X Factor
A former boyfriend of Holly Bobo’s, Blake Barnett, is also doing nothing to avoid being scrutinized. It is clear from his facebook postings that he is aware of his “celebrity”, and that folks following this case, are reading.
While it does not make him a bad guy, we have confirmed that he has had a background of alleged violence, in a former relationship with Holly Bobo.
He was the first name utttered by Holly Bobo’s parents, Dana and Karen, when they learned of her abduction.
That said, there is no known evidence linking Mr. Barnett to Holly’s disappearance.
Barnett is no stranger to violence, unfortunately, Blake, his brother and sister lost their parents Timothy and Janice in a brutal murder in 1993.
John Robinson, with actus reus assistance from his wife Kimberly, murdered both of the Barnett’s because they were after him for bounced checks.
Amelia, Blake’s little sister, was left in her crib for 48 hours before police found her while looking for the Barnett’s. She survived.
There have been no official suspects or persons of interest named in the disappearance of Holly Bobo in 4 weeks.
There has not been a LE update to her case since May 2.
The search effort for Holly Bobo continues.
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@Jeff: No problem. It was starting to dogpile, and that just didn’t seem fair/right to me.
Blink, two questions based on earlier comments you made (see links and snips below):
1. Does the case still look pretty simple?
2. Do you still think the murder/suicide situation is likely?
It’s been so long now, I know that the possibility of Holly being alive is quite slim but I’m still praying for that.
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Ragdoll says:
April 21, 2011 at 5:25 pm
Blink, is there still a chance for Holly coming home alive? If the LE knows and her family knows, then it would seem their attention is focused on getting the perp, then retrieving Holly.
Please, I hope I am so wrong about this :’o(
SI personally do not believe this very lovely young lady is with us any longer.
The adrenaline and mental state with which one perpetrates an act like this, is very, very toxic to both that individual and of course Holly. Once a person “fragments” that way, it is near impossible to turn that around, especially when they blame that state on the victim.
Given the evidence that has been recovered, it’s location and the timing, I think this is a recovery operation at this point.
I would not be surprised if this case ends up a murder suicide.
B
http://blinkoncrime.com/2011/04/19/holly-bobo-missing-atv-tire-ads-tied-to-case-search-sets-up-roadblocks-blink-discuss-case-tonight-on-dana-pretzer-show/comment-page-2/#comments
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Sunflower32 says:
April 20, 2011 at 11:10 pm
B,
Why is the profile of the Sullivan attempted abductor not “in the same zip code” as the profile of the perp in this case? There must be something obvious that am missing. On the surface, I was willing to consider that the Sullivan matter may have been an early trial for a gradually more bold and determined predator. Why are you so quick to discount this possibility?
This is an excellent question.
There are many reasons. Some of which, if I address, I have a concern for compromising this case, which I will never do.
Again, I encourage the question. In no way am I putting you off.
On a basic level, Sullivan did not know this alleged perp. He was not successful in abducting her. He does not fit the physical description, and imo, le has had a beat on this guy since the 911 call.
I am struggling for the words to articulate this so it does not sound smug or disrespectful.
In terms of the cases we cover, this is among the “simplest” in terms of profile and probable outcome.
http://blinkoncrime.com/2011/04/19/holly-bobo-missing-atv-tire-ads-tied-to-case-search-sets-up-roadblocks-blink-discuss-case-tonight-on-dana-pretzer-show/comment-page-2/#comments
1. Yes, I still think it is simple, but I think it is going to be extremely difficult to locate Holly without an arrest.
2. No, I no longer believe the perp (s) will commit suicide. This guy is an LE taunter.
B
EssayKaye and Kim-what names are you requesting to use at SM? If you post it here I’ll go tell Klaas and she will prolly approve you quite quick. She has a gazillion people trying to get on and she does appreciate if someone here will bring to her attention if waiting a long time.
And Blink, since I know Jonathan Dodd, I know he lies, or “stretches the truth”. I could tell you on this site or any site, that I am black, or chinese, white or Indian, pregnant by the POTUS, or a male in the middle of a sex change. Does that make it true?
And roller monkey, Derek Scott and Blake Barnett are friends, but that does not mean he and Jonathan Dodd are. Some people who facebook have thousands of “friends”, what does that mean, you would tell all of them all your deepest darkest secrets. I seriously doubt it. The person who did this has done it so well, they must have some experience or planned it out with precision. LE may have not completely cleared anyone. But if you have already been questioned by them and now left alone, I would dare say you are on your way to being caught or being cleared. More than I can say for the rest of us. I haven’t been questioned, nor do I expect to, as I have never been on the Bobo land. I know all these people personally, except Clint. But I do not think he has any involvement other than being regretful of his not being nosier when he saw what he saw. I hope this does prevent other abductions, by brothers, fathers, sisters, friends, etc… paying more attention to who their family member, friend is walking, riding off with. From here on out, I want to see faces and know names. If you are with my kid, and I don’t know you well, I will ask you for your DL# and if you date my daughter I will write down your tag number. IDC how violated you feel.
I still feel it is not a local. It may be someone who “vacations” here though. But as I said many of these coon hunter people have been coming here for YEARS. This is not the first visit.
Blink are there any updates other than what we know, which is nothing other than a found lunch box. No news on the “significant find” Easter Sunday. No news on the blood in the carport. May not have been enough to test, reckon. or get a determination of DNA from, reckon. Why no news? Reckon they don’t know any more than what they are telling? Just curious. You seem to have the inside scoop. The trouble is I think the inside scoop is out there. Lunch box, over-educated guesses, secretive evidence, or wishful thinking. Still no news of Holly, everyone has gotten quiet. LE/TBI, what is going on?
rollermonkey, how Blake Barnett and Jonathan Dodd know each other is when Blake’s fist connected with Dodd’s face. Personal knowledge makes this fact. They have not become friends since the incident either. Another fact.
Still praying for Holly, her family, and LE/TBI. Also I think we need to remember to pray for the perp, ya’ll. To be convicted with remorse for his crime, caught, and punished. Another fact for ya’ll, poor Holly had a problem with cheating on boy friends, instead of breaking up with them, she often ended up cheating with their best friends and staying in a relationship with the best friend to the ex-boyfriends dismay. I know of two times this has happened.
And Blink what happened to my post on Lee Baugus, why has he not been looked at. He was the last current boyfriend before Drew Scott. She left Lee for Drew, in the manner mentioned above. Just curious, I can’t find it anywhere. I hope it wasn’t deliberatly left out. I can’t find it anywhere.
Lee Baugus has been interviewed to my knowledge.
SO if Blake beat up Dodd, wouldnt it be true Dodd also knew Holly in some way?
Whether or not Holly “cheated” is not relevant to being subject to a brutal act of violence.
B
Jon Dodd also said he didn’t know the bobo’s. Doesn’t that prove he kinda lies?
Definitely.
B
annie.
How well do you know Holly and what is she like?Can you also tell
me if you know anything about the Fight Club.Thanks for all you input.
annie says:
May 25, 2011 at 9:49 am
rollermonkey, how Blake Barnett and Jonathan Dodd know each other is when Blake’s fist connected with Dodd’s face. Personal knowledge makes this fact. They have not become friends since the incident either.
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Annie: You seem protective of Blake and I want to let you know… I’m not suspecting Blake.
Sure, lots of reasons he would be looked at, but I’m thinking that might just be a convenience for some and unfortunate for Blake.
I work in criminal justice, therefore I’m suspicous of everyone
And really, what I think doesn’t matter. I’m not part of Holly’s family or part of Blake’s family.
I admire your effort to protect someone important to you. I hope you are right and he has nothing to do with this. I appreciate the patience and restraint displayed in your postings here
RE: melissab says:
May 25, 2011 at 12:01 am
EssayKaye and Kim-what names are you requesting to use at SM? If you post it here I’ll go tell Klaas and she will prolly approve you quite quick. She has a gazillion people trying to get on and she does appreciate if someone here will bring to her attention if waiting a long time.
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Thank you, melissab. That is very kind of you. I think I registered under the proposed name of “MonaMonkey” around July 2010. I am content just reading, posting, rolling and scrolling here, but every once in a while I really want to be able to respond/contribute to particular posts at SM. (I am so sad that it has been almost a year and Kyron still hasn’t been found….)
Twinmoma – you’d be better off not even reading that FB page.
I have been told that the person running that page is not legitimate.
I don’t know that I can post all the reasons why because I do not know them as facts myself. But there has been enough posted about the person running that page to make me very, VERY leery of anyone believing any of it or getting close to this individual. Anyone, and there have been several, who even questions any of his so called facts has been deleted from the page. Some people just latch on to situations like this for the noteriaty (sp?) and purely self satisfying reasons, unfortunately.
My advice…stay as far away from the FB page as possible.
1. Yes, I still think it is simple, but I think it is going to be extremely difficult to locate Holly without an arrest.
2. No, I no longer believe the perp (s) will commit suicide. This guy is an LE taunter.
B
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Thanks, B, for the answers. 2 kinda creeps me out though — that implies more than just a fubar guy overcome with his deranged version of love. It implies someone with a sadistic streak who’s enjoying this as a game.
@Annie — you state that “…Another fact for ya’ll, poor Holly had a problem with cheating on boy friends, instead of breaking up with them, she often ended up cheating with their best friends and staying in a relationship with the best friend to the ex-boyfriends dismay…”
My comment: of course, it would be great if by 20 yo we were all perfect, in long-term committed, stable, trusting relationships with our soulmate, but that’s not generally reality. It’s kind of common to try on different relationships at that age, and yes, sometimes one starts before the other ends, and while that’s not optimal, it’s certainly normal for both males and females in that age range. I know. I did it myself. As a real adult, I would never do that, but it’s pretty common in our late teens and early 20s and most of us grow out of it when we realize how it hurts the other person and we get the cajones to say “it’s over” when it is. If Holly were a married adult, I’d think the behavior pattern worth mentioning, but for a 20 yo beautiful girl (and yes, still a girl, I think), it’s not anything that I think is relevant other than it could have been something that the perp had issue with. JMO.
Blink, you said you think it is going to be difficult to locate holly without an arrest(link below) So do you think there is gonna be an arrest anytime soon? How confident are you that there will be an arrest at all? Or do you think this will be like the martha moxley case where there is not an arrest for many many years??
Link: http://blinkoncrime.com/2011/05/10/holly-bobo-missing-and-endangered-are-suspects-naming-themselves-odd-dodd/#comments 1
Sorry I don’t think I got the entire link before
http://blinkoncrime.com/2011/05/10/holly-bobo-missing-and-endangered-are-suspects-naming-themselves-odd-dodd/comment-page-14/#comment-1694713
Ahhhh sorry, don’t hate me the comment I was referring to
1. Yes, I still think it is simple, but I think it is going to be extremely difficult to locate Holly without an arrest.
If a young lady texted a picture of herself to a young man’s myspace page and he thanked her, wouldn’t that indicate that he knows her to some degree? If he does not want his current girlfriend to know about his communications with the other girl, he might tend to lie about knowing her.
If the guy is an le taunter and not likely to commit suicide, would vulnerable little members of his family need protection? Would he be likely to harm them when he snaps from the pressure of being under the microscope — or is he just too arrogant to realize his situation?
What’s the hold-up with an arrest? No offense to little Caylee but I can’t stand it that Holly’s story is now on the “next page”.
Becca- I can appreciate that, I can, but I have worked on Caylee’s case for 3 years, and in some ways how I came to this work.
Hopefully some of that “learned tenacity” will help in efforts to find answers in Holly’s case.
B
I’ve been following this for a couple of weeks now via the RSS feed. Today, tho, I had to chime in. To the people that are dismissing Holly’s tendency to “cheat” because she’s only 20 and 20 year olds do that. Are you kidding me? Are you saying that you don’t think a 20ish guy that may be nuts about her is just gonna say “oh gee that’s too bad”? Maybe some, or even alot of guys, but don’t dismiss it that quickly. Guys get hurt and POed too, and maybe she did it to one that would also get even.
But it might well be relevant to motive.
Cheating, whether real or imagined, is right up there at the top of the list of potential instigating factors for crimes of passion.
Violence isn’t an acceptable response to cheating – but we’re all well aware it happens.
Have to say, that comment was almost a relief to see – because if true, then maybe TBI does have something to work with.
The whole angelic perfection never-done-any-wrong spiel was wearing a little thin – and didn’t really ring true in the first place – came across as a “speak no evil of the dead” party line.
If all the investigators got from interviews was “there’s no reason anyone would have any reason to be upset at her”, it would be a hindrance to the investigation.
Now, I’m not trying to be mean here – a victim is a victim. People make mistakes, and I’m not trying to say or even imply that she might have deserved it.
I’m just trying to say, it’s very possible that in the perpetrator’s mind, he thinks she did.
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Whether or not Holly “cheated” is not relevant to being subject to a brutal act of violence.
B
We agree, but I had to address the context.
B
I don’t know what holly cheating on her b/f’s has to do with anything. The only thing this does is give the perp or perps a motive to harm her. Hopefully they solve this case and all this stuff gets an answer.
Blink –
Here’s to all the Blink’s in the world, with their compassion and tenacity, working toward Justice for all the Holly’s and Kyron’s out there. I’m sure the families have immeasurable gratefulness to have “Blinks” standing by them for the long haul. I feel so helpless sometimes and wish I could do something to help.
Your here Becca, therefore you “are”. We are the sum of our parts here.
B
anne
Excuse me if you already answered this or I didn’t pick it up. Are you related to this bb in anyway. I am just courious to the unrelented defense of him. The only thing I know about the guy is he possibley had a r/o against him.
Dear Blink,
What news of Holly? Why so much deafening silence on this case? Do the LE or TBI want to catch a bigger fish than the smaller ones or simply they give up?
Please all of you pray for Holly to return. Pray for that young man, Clint, to have mercy of the God and not live with the burden of blame. That kind of burden is definitely a back-breaker! Just not give up.
Hope to hear good news.
Jackie Bauer, I heart you.
Your comments about the love lives of 20-year-olds provide perspective and balance to a conversation that could easily get blown out of proportion. Not that I think annie was necessarily trying to be provocative or negative. If it is true that Holly had some trouble in the past transitioning between relationships, that could be extremely relevant in solving this case.
@Lilah: yes, you’re right: “If it is true that Holly had some trouble in the past transitioning between relationships, that could be extremely relevant in solving this case.” I totally agree, and I’m glad that you appreciated my comments. After all of these years, having been a flaky girl has finally provided me some insight into the young flaky girls of today lol.
Cnog: Per your comment. Yeah, Cnog I do. It wouldn’t be the first time, and it ain’t gonna be the last time they either are wrong or I am wrong.
Annie –
Thank you for sharing all of this! I hear what you are saying, but I want to ask you one thing. If Blink is actively involved in this case and she says things like…
1. There will be an arrest
2. It will SHOCK the community
3. LE/TBI think it is someone local
4. They are almost 100% sure, if not 100% sure, they know who did it
(all paraphrased because it would take too long to look back and find the exact posts)
If Blink is saying these things, what it causing you to be so sure to suggest otherwise? And I ask this because I sincerely want to know. Do you think Blink, LE, TBI, all those involved have it THAT wrong.
annie- you are going to need to link and snip, last warning to all.
I cannot post comments that are not inline with copyright, period.
This site and this thread is designed to be progressive, if we cannot review former posts, I will cut the thread to a maximum amount and turn it off. That would be counter-productive imo, but I am not going to continue to repeat myself.
B
To all who commented on my comment. I want you all to know I am not trying to slander Holly, as I think she is a wonderful girl. I will speak of her in the present as I want to keep in my mind she may still be with us. I am not going to divulge whether I am related to Blake, but Blink I want to thank you for letting me know that Lee Baugus was questioned. And as for Holly having a cheating problem, she does, and that is pertinent to this investigation IMO. It is a pattern of hers. I don’t think she meant to be hurtful, I think she hates to hurt people and rather than say she doesn’t want to be with them anymore, she just leaves in that manner.
Jeff, I will not divulge whether or not I am a family member and he POSSIBLY had an RO against him. That is pure speculation. I am almost certain there was not one.
Thank you Rollermonkey, I am not trying to OFfend anyone in the things that I know. I am scared to DEfend anyone, but when I know someone is innocent, I have to. I do not work in criminal justice, but know alot of criminals. I agree with you, I think we should be suspicious of everyone.
Thanks Blink for allowing me to say what I need to on your site. It helps.
Jackie, I don’t mean to offend you with the truth. But when someone dies or encounters misfortune, the family tends to angelize them. I want to see the good parts too, but the fact remains that no one is perfect and sometimes we make mistakes that determine our eventual fate if you will.
I am new to this site, so please be patient with me, as it is my only outlet.
I apologize Blink, I just cut what she wrote, I did not know exactly where all this was. I am not quoting you, I was quoting what they said to me, to clarify what I was referring to. Thanks again, I will do my best not to do that again.
Daydreamer: I am not aware of the fight club, doesnt’ mean there isn’t one. There are lots of things I am not aware of, but I am not afraid to say what I am aware of. Just facts, hate half-truths, and people talking who don’t know, just claim to. But I think Blink knows what she’s talking about, I just have a different opinion on this matter. That’s ok with me, whatever it takes to find this girl. Sometimes brainstorming helps.
@Annie: you state that “Jackie, I don’t mean to offend you with the truth. But when someone dies or encounters misfortune, the family tends to angelize them. I want to see the good parts too, but the fact remains that no one is perfect and sometimes we make mistakes that determine our eventual fate if you will.”
My comment: I am not offended. My intention with my remarks was that we keep this in perspective. Holly is a 20 year old GIRL, not a mature married woman, and 20 yos, male and female, do this, not because they intend to hurt anyone, but because breaking up is so very hard to do, and when we’re young and foolish, we sometimes don’t know how to gracefully extricate ourselves from situations. I just don’t want to sit in judgement of a 20 yo girl based on something like cheating on her boyfriends — that hardly counts as any real crime at 20. It’s so common because there’s such a learning curve, and having grown up in the small town south, I know just how hard it is to break up with the boys because of the pressures involved. And if her mistake is what determined her fate, then I say it is still all on the perp and not at all on Holly. She didn’t deserve this. She may not be perfect, but show me the one of us who is, she is just a normal girl, albeit a beautiful one. Again, moo.
perplexed says:
May 25, 2011 at 1:20 pm
If a young lady texted a picture of herself to a young man’s myspace page and he thanked her, wouldn’t that indicate that he knows her to some degree? If he does not want his current girlfriend to know about his communications with the other girl, he might tend to lie about knowing her.
Another thought on this,if the current girlfriend found out about this young lady,would that give the young man a reason to do some damage control.Are we on the same page here?
hello all. I am encouraged with humanity when I see such kindness here at Blink’s house.
Annie, my prayers are for your community. I hope you all have peace soon.
annie
You have every right to defend whomever you want on here. I was just trying to find what direction you were coming from. It was not my intent to offend you so I apologize if i did. Nobody wants to think a family member or friend is capable of committed a crime like this. Now in this case, I am not going to pass judgement on anyone until all the facts are known. I do think there are certain details in this case not released yet. These details I think could clear up a lot of confusion about the case. I well say this Anne, its not the intial crime that gets someone caught its the coverup afterwards. All you got to do is look at the caylee anthony case to prove that point. Just my two cents
Annie, I think I get where you’re coming from. Holly’s behaviour (I do not know Holly, I am going by what you are claiming as ‘cheating’ tendencies) could have made her a target. It may be why she was targeted. Regardless, she is the victim. Only Holly. Not the abductor/s or anyone else involved in her disappearance. I am paraphrasing Blink with this post:
Whether or not Holly “cheated” is not relevant to being subject to a brutal act of violence.
B
http://blinkoncrime.com/2011/05/10/holly-bobo-missing-and-endangered-are-suspects-naming-themselves-odd-dodd/#comments
Holly did not deserve what happened to her.
@ Alex….trust me on this one my friend, she is being prayed for! BOC’s silence (or lack of postings) is louder than a 747. The victims here and those in our own hearts are never forgotten. It’s what makes this site what it is. No one here is quitter. Morgan Harrington’s thread is another testimony of progression in God’s time.
As Blink always says, keep the faith. She has never steered us wrong!
Holly is extremely attractive, bright, athletic, nice family and a promising future in nursing. I’m sure she had a lot of young men pursuing her, a few broken hearts and a lot of jealous young ladies. I just hope whoever has harmed her is soon caught and prosecuted.
I also had a question(s)…I’ve not seen anyone identify themselves as a friend of Holly’s on any blog/forum. Do you think LE has asked her friends to not talk and that her friends have a pretty good idea of who committed this crime? Do you think any of them are in danger/or have been threatened for what they may know?
Hi Annie,
Just wondering if you personally know Holly or knew her in past?
There’s always 2 sides to the story. I wanted to respectfully give my opinion. That possibly Holly wasn’t a Cheater. I know when I was young I was accused of it but was not.. just the guy wanted sympathy.. ect.
Just my 2 cents.
I hope and pray for Holly everyday. For her family as well.
starM
Are we using just my two cents now too (lol). I felt there was too much MOOING going on. Wanna to say something different (lol)
I just wanted to say. I have been praying for Holly since day one. I have read so many posts I can’t remember everything I read and have lost hours at a time reading and reading and praying and praying for her safe return. I read in a forum that I believe 2 of her friends mentioned the name of who took her as well as a guy saying he knew who took her and that was like noon the day she disappeared. At that time I didn’t know all the names that have been brought up since and the posts have been removed. It scares the H*** out of me to think about this and I have 4 beautiful grandchildren and I pray for their protection from this horror!! I too have wondered how safe a certain girl and child are~~Won’t mention names. Praying for Holly and her family no one should have to live this nightmare!!
Ha Jeff
Guess I’m old school hehe
I feel like a nerd. I looked up what “RO” meant in LE terminology awhile back and found an article that indicated it was Registered Owner. I went with it because I thought “ATV’s need Registered Owners and that fits with this whole thread.” Apparently it also means Registered Offender and Restraining Order. hehe, hope I’m not the only one lost on some of these acronyms!
cnog
I was lost on the moo acronym for a while when I first started posted on here. You were not the only one.
Jackie, sorry for the misunderstanding. I thought you meant that what I said wasn’t pertinent and IMO it is. That is the first reason many crimes of passion happen. I still really do not think an ex-boyfriend has done anything to Holly. I still think it is someone she met at the Coon Hunt. Didn’t really pay attention to, or did maybe. I just don’t know. We do have some sex offenders here, I have one right across the road from my house. Because of this case, I found them registered on the tn.gov site, and am now aware. I think everyone should do this, tn.gov, click the background checks under online services, registries link, you get meth, sex, and abuse. Search within __ miles of your address, and you will get their addresses, names, and pix of some of them. So you will be aware.
What does the MOO mean? New to this site.
I certainly do agree with anyone who says she did not deserve this. I have a daughter of my own and it scares me to death to think someone out there, in our county just takes our girls. Or anyone’s girls. We are terrified and overprotecting them at this point. It may be years before I can stop freaking out. Holly is a wonderful girl. I stated she does not like to be in confrontations, as per breaking up with someone. But that is what could have something to do with this. I am positive she had many pursuers. Albeit someone that has taken her away from us. It makes me sick to my stomach. I hurt for her family, I hurt for her church. Hell, I hurt for her, bc who knows what they have put her through. I just can’t let go of the slim possibility that she is alive, and being held captive for someone’s sick perversions. In this case, what would be better for her. My selfish hopes are for the pain to end for everyone and she be returned home, but at what cost? Has she possibly been so damaged that she would rather die? I mean I have to think realistically, as sick as it makes me. She is kind, therefore is she being kind enough to not be killed. Submissive to him, or has anger finally taken over. I have prayed for God to send the strength of Sampson to come over her and her to kill this person. I personally do not care about their punishment as much as I care about her being returned home.
To StarM: No she really did cheat. I don’t think it was intentionally to hurt someone. She just doesn’t handle telling them, no matter how long she has been with them. Not saying the boyfriends were perfect, and she didn’t have good reason to move on. Just putting facts out there. There is reason that someone would want to harm Holly. That is one of them. The only one I am aware of. That age group is unpredictable.
Again Jackie, I am not one to sit in judgement, just think ya’ll ought to know that. I have been in the same situation and it is very hard to remove ourselves, especially when someone has delicate feelings and no idea that we want out. When we move on without explanation, especially after being with them for over a year, it shocks us (them) to the the point of anger, hurt, denial, hoping they will come back, hoping for them to be hurt like we were, and what else I don’t even know. As I am not a teenage boy, but I have seen the pain inflicted on them by girls who do this, as well as vice versa. I have been judged, therefore do not judge others. But we can’t deny the facts, and sometimes those are what get people hurt.
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Hello B, just wondering, is this the beginning of a new level for this perp? Since I have no way of understanding this kind of mind, did this become a graduation of sorts from smaller similar types of aggression, or was this just a one time snap? I ask because if so, it would seem at some point this person would have to satisfy himself again. Maybe I’m off base and we’re just dealing with a punk that wasn’t thinking very clearly that day.
I have no idea yet.
B
What if the perp came to holly’s house to beg her to take him back. Maybe he knew the only time he could talk to her alone was right before she went to school or work at 7 30 am. If the person was local like le said, then its possible the parents didn’t like the guy. Does anyone think she had any interaction with the perp before the crime was committed? I am thinking a local person might drive by her house, maybe call the house and hang up a lot. Just my two cents.
31.daydreamer says:
May 25, 2011 at 6:26 pm
perplexed says:
May 25, 2011 at 1:20 pm
If a young lady texted a picture of herself to a young man’s myspace page and he thanked her, wouldn’t that indicate that he knows her to some degree? If he does not want his current girlfriend to know about his communications with the other girl, he might tend to lie about knowing her.
Another thought on this,if the current girlfriend found out about this young lady,would that give the young man a reason to do some damage control.Are we on the same page here?
We are definitely on the same page. The young man has motivation to lie to le and to his gf. He also has motivation to blame the victim for his predicament rather than accept responsibility for his actions.
Cnog…my biggest hurdle with the acronyms was “moo”….everywhere I went people were “moo”-ing…I’m from KY, I was thinkin’ cow…as in moo-cow. Needless to say it made no sense to me for the longest time! lol
EssayKaye you silly little thing you! Lol! If you used MonaMonkey you were approved Aug. 2010 but never knew it! Log in at SM using that name and the password you registered and go! If you have trouble you can email Klaas directly at her hotmail addy. See you there!
For those requesting admission at SM, just log in once in a while under your requested name and password to see if you have been approved. To my knowledge there is no notification system to let you know your up!
Thanks Jeff and cbickel for your empathy!!
Annie – I will say that as far as I know (which if you read my above post, could be incorrect;) MOO = My Opinion Only. Hope that helps!